Lovebirds

09:07

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I love photographing couples.
I love the giggles.  The coy looks. 
I love catching a glimpse of  the gentle touches.  The stolen kisses. 
I love hearing the belly laughs. 
I love watching the defences melt away as we all walk and talk, sharing stories between frames, until the unguarded and true face of the relationship comes through in the images.  The ones you can't hide. 
I love the beauty.  The hope.  The promise.
I love capturing something which they have always seen in each other.
I love the faith reflected in their eyes.
I love the history you can feel between some couples as much as,
I love the heady early swells of a new relationship.
I love seeing passion overflow...

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Lotus and David were no exception.
I love how they teased each other.
I love the innocence.
I love how they make up stories together.
I love the moment she grabbed his face and kissed him.
I love how they choreograph and perform mini song and dance routines inspired by random things they see.
I love the palpable anticipation of the future.

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Bottom line?
I just love photographing couples.

Serendipity

01:37

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I thought we had missed the light,
but I think we ended up catching the best of it.

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more to come...

Do Anything

02:05


You people saving whales,
giving your thanks to our seas;
my respect to the ones in the forest,
standing up for our old trees.

Them giving food to the hungry,

giving hope to the needy,
giving life to a baby,
giving care for free;
there is freedom around us,
we have everything we need,
I will care for you,
because you care for me.
We all have opinions,
some of them get through,
but there's better people,
with more good to do.

What I have could be a message,

or just some words from my heart,
my respect to the ones making changes,
for other lives they'll give their own.


- Better People, Xavier Rudd





I watched this film last night.  It actually won the Best Documentary Feature for 2009 at the Oscars, but I had not heard about it until it was shown on TV this evening.  It's certainly clear why the film was honoured, The Cove is quite simply courageous film making at its best; and the message it carries is hauntingly pierce.

About the annual dolphin slaughter that takes place in a hidden cove at Taiji, Japan; the film contains some of the most distressing scenes I have seen.  I couldn't stop the tears from falling, and I couldn't believe that we, collectively, allow this happen - not just once - but annually.  It made me feel sick.  

That is the problem, you see.  Now I have seen this, I am no longer ignorant.  Up until 2 hours ago I didn't know this took place.  I could be excused in ignorance.  But now I know, if I do nothing, then it becomes a choice; and if I choose to do nothing, then I become complicit in allowing it to continue.

But what can I do?  What can one person do which would make a significant difference?  Particularly one little me?  Often these questions overwhelm me and I allow myself to scurry back to my safe warm existance with a false sense of acceptance.  I convince myself, by cataloguing all the reasons why I couldn't do anything, then it was ok to do nothing.  After all, I don't have a huge disposable income to donate, I suck at fundraising, hell I don't even have that many friends on Facebook!

Excuses!  Let's face it, I was just making it easy for myself.  Sure, they are all truths, but maybe I should be looking at what I can do instead of what I can't.  Besides, it doesn't matter if what I do doesn't make a visible difference, because ultimately it is simply a question of doing something or doing nothing; the rest is rightly up to something a lot bigger than my human self.

Well I can't do nothing, so I'm going to do something, and for the first time ever I mass invited my small group of Facebook buddies to "join this cause".  I tweeted my kind handful of followers.  And yes, I'm blogging it here. Sure, if I start thinking about what impact my teeny tiny speck of dust in the world of social networking can have, I wouldn't bother.  But it's not about that.  It's about doing something.  Anything.

Joy

00:25

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Cam and I don't have children but we are at the age now where family members and friends all around us are adding to their family of 2, so we have been lucky to witness the transformational journey pregnancy clearly is. From the physical changes a woman experiences, to the deeper-than-skin, inner changes they both experience.  The fears, hopes, and excitement they have imagining what life will be like +1.  These may be conversations they openly share, or they may be held only in the quiet spaces of their own mind and heart; but wherever they are, they are happening.

Yet during those rollercoaster months, one thing always appears to remain constant - the overarching feeling of immense joy. Joy in it's largest most complete sense. The joy that fills you from the tips of your toes and overflows through your crown. And, because of this, no matter what anxieties they may have, and no matter how bloated her ankles may be, they will always be glowing and she will always look beautiful.

Shelly is most definitely a case in point (although she doesn't have bloated ankles). I know her last weeks at work were hard and she was tired and stressed and very pregnant. But I also know she is blissfully looking forward to being a mother, and they are over-the-moon happy about starting a family. So I knew no matter how she felt physically, the joy she felt inside would shine through. And it did. Oh it really did.

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One of the things I have learnt through this shoot is that photography is about your client trusting how you see them. This is what attracts you to each other.

Shelly and Simon, like most people, don't particularly thrill to having a camera pointed at them; but for 60 minutes they trusted us to capture images of them to reflect this new adventure they are about to embark upon. And, we captured moments of two people very much in love, full of laughter and tender expectancy. We caught gentle kisses, fingers intertwined and bellies stroked. We witnessed joy.

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